Learning to Let Go

Learning to let go is one of life’s most difficult tasks. To let go often means giving up control and/or unrealistic expectations — allowing yourself to be imperfect, to be vulnerable and to be free.


For me, this is an all too familiar lesson that I'm still learning. I sometimes find myself trying to control EVERYTHING. I don't have OCD but sometimes I wonder. When something bothers me or I want something done, I will repeat myself until the matter is resolved. My scorpion attributes of strong focus and will and the attempt to protect my emotions at all cost makes for a semi-obsessive personality.

Eagle Transformation: In times when I need comfort or empowerment, I turn to the eagle for reassurance. The eagle is the majestic bird of clear sight and power. In mythology, the eagle becomes the phoenix, which rises from its own ashes. The eagle's ability to soar higher than any other living creature makes it the greatest symbol of regeneration and resurrection.

I then remind myself that letting go doesn’t mean that I'm giving up; rather, I'm making decisions that strengthen me as an individual. I'm learning to focus on and protect my self worth as I value my authenticity.

Today's Affirmation: I release! I let go! I coast along with my hands off the controls. I let go of all expectations. I let go of the need to control others and situations. I breathe freely without constraints. My energy flows without care. My heart is receptive and open like the wind.